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Science party!

Posted on August 1, 2019 by Wendy Posted in Twins .

The boys turned 5 this weekend. I know, crazy huh? We managed to keep them both alive for 5 whole years! They decided they wanted a scientist birthday party theme so I did my best to accommodate and I think it turned out pretty well. In case you’d like to do something similar here’s a description of what we did and how it turned out.

Pouring the yeast mixture in to the bottle to make elephant toothpaste

Elephant toothpaste – This was fun and very easy. I thought it was a little anticlimactic but they loved it and that’s what counts. To do this activity you’ll need a clean, 16 oz plastic bottle, 1-packet activated yeast, 1/2 cup of peroxide, dish soap, water and food coloring. Add about 1 tablespoon of dish soap to the bottle and then drip food coloring down the inside of the bottle (this will leave streaks). In a separate container mix together warm water and the yeast until it starts to bubble a little. Now, carefully pour the yeast water into the plastic bottle. Right away the dish soap will start to foam and overflow the bottle! (Be sure to have a container under the bottle to catch the foam.)

The foam happens because the yeast acts as a catalyst to separate the oxygen in the hydrogen peroxide. The released oxygen gets trapped in the dish soap making lots of tiny bubbles really quickly. This is an exothermic reaction so be careful – the bottle will get hot!

Putting the thickened juice mixture into the syringe

Gummy juice worms – This one was cool but required a lot of special ingredients so plan ahead. The basic idea is that you use Sodium Alginate (a gelling agent) and Calcium Chloride to make juice into gummy worms. You’ll need Sodium Alginate, Calcium Chloride, a blender, fruit juice and a syringe with a wide mouth or spoon. First, add 1 tsp of Sodium Alginate to 1 cup of fruit juice (use different kinds of juice to make different flavored worms). Blend it up in the blender to remove all the lumps – it’ll get thick. Next, fill a pan with water and stir in 1 tablespoon of Calcium Chloride. Then suck up the thickened fruit juice into the syringe and squirt it into the pan with the water and Calcium Chloride. It should form long strings. (If the syringe gets clogged like ours did you can also spoon the fruit juice mixture in instead to make “caviar”). After the “worms” have set (about 1 minute) scoop them out and rinse them off in a bowl of fresh water and enjoy! Be sure to rinse them off really well or they’ll taste salty.

Tasting the worms

Ice cream in a bag – This was a huge hit (especially with me, I can’t believe it worked). You’ll need a large ziplock bag and a small ziplock bag, ice, Kosher salt, milk, vanilla, and sugar. In the small bag put 1 cup of milk, 1 tsp of vanilla and 2 tsps of sugar (amounts don’t really matter here, you can just eye ball it). Close the small bag and put it inside the large ziplock with a generous amount of ice and a few shakes of salt. Now shake the bag vigorously for about 10 minutes. We turned on the music and had a dance party. After 10 minutes remove the small bag and enjoy your ice cream! You can also add smashed strawberries, chocolate sauce, etc to liven things up.

Slime!

Slime – Ah, slime. Also known as mothers bane, carpet killer, and middle school crack. Our version used Elmers glue, Borax, water, food coloring and glitter and I’m going to be honest – we started out trying to measure and follow directions but things quickly devolved and we ended up with slime of every texture and consistency, which was actually kind of cool. Take 1/4 tsp Borax and mix it with 1/2 cup of water. In a separate bowl mix 1/2 c. of glue with 1/2 c. of water. Now combine the 2 bowls and add any food coloring or glitter. We just kept adding different stuff to see what would happen – science at it’s best!

Slime making in progress

Slime happens because the borate ions in the Borax react with the polyvinyl acetate in the glue. The glue is made up of long strings called polymers and when the borate ions mix with these polymers they get all tangled up and stop acting like a fluid and start acting like a solid. This is called a Non-Newtonian fluid!

Also, they totally loved their “Scientist outfits“!

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Time to get in shape for summer – who’s with me?

Posted on April 5, 2017 by Wendy Posted in Eating, Motherhood, Twins, Weight loss .

I’m about to do a thing and it scares me. I’m about to post about fitness and nutrition and put pictures of myself in a bathing suit on the internet. I think I’ve lost my mind. I am not a fitness and nutrition person. I hate sports and jogging and the gym. I love pizza and salt and vinegar chips and wine and margaritas. So know that I realize that this is total madness.

But here’s the thing. I’m going to the beach for a week in the middle of June where I will (presumably) be wearing a bathing suit. Now, I’ve known that this was coming but did that stop me from eating pizza and drinking wine this weekend? No. Did it keep me from having delicious Thai food for lunch yesterday? No. No it did not. Now I’m not overweight (thank you genetics), but it’s been a long winter and the, um, “fluff” has accumulated. I feel bloated and out of sorts. And I’m out of shape – very out of shape. And it’s embarrassing to admit but I can’t fit into my favorite shorts and if I can’t fit in to my shorts then putting on my bathing suit is really going to make me cry.

The problem, though, is that I have 3 kids, a husband, a full-time job, a 4 hour daily commute, a consulting business on the side, 2 cats, a house that requires upkeep and yard maintenance, a leadership position in a women’s advocacy group and I occasionally like to sleep and bathe. When, exactly, am I going to exercise? Or cook a bunch of healthy food just for myself, because we all know that my family isn’t going to eat zoodles and salads. And it isn’t just me. We’re all busy. Super busy. How can we fit some amount of exercise and self-care into our already over-packed and scheduled lives?

That’s what I’m going to try and find out. I’m going to document my efforts to exercise, eat healthier and fit into my shorts. You are going to keep me honest and accountable. The objective here isn’t necessarily to lose weight (although I will *gulp* report my weight changes) – the point is to feel better and look better. And I have to do it in 10 weeks.

So, here we are at the “before”. God, I hate the before. The before is so humiliating.

  • Starting Weight – 130.2 lbs.
  • Starting Exercise –Walking; Fitbit step count average is 5,256 steps/day.
  • Diet – Does pizza with peppers and onions count as a diet?

Before Picture (shield your eyes from my blinding whiteness)

Plan

  • Weight and Health
    • To fit into my shorts – the number on the scale doesn’t matter
    • To build some muscle mass
    • To get healthier!
  • Exercise
    • Increase step count to 10,000 steps/day
    • Start doing the free Couch to 5K running app at least 2x a week
    • Sit on an exercise ball at work for at least 3 hours a day
    • Maybe take a yoga class once in while and see if that’s possible with my DR (see below)
  • Diet
    • Use the Fitbit app to watch my calorie intake
    • Try out new, healthier versions of what my family already eats (thank you Pinterest!)
    • Cut out all alcohol and fried foods except for one cheat day a week.
    • (**If I find any great healthy recipes I’ll share them here).

**Another thing I need to work on is my “completely open” diastasic recti (DR) – or separated stomach muscles. This is a pretty common condition after carrying a big baby (or multiples) and it affects core strength, pelvic floor function and overall strength. It also causes the “mom pooch”. My case is pretty bad – I can fit 3 fingers to the knuckle into the gap between my stomach muscles (thanks to carrying 15 lbs of babies and 6 lbs of placenta). The tough part for me is that most of the types of exercise that I enjoy, like yoga and pilates, need to be severally curtailed or avoided all together until you’ve either had the DR surgically repaired or you’ve strengthened your transverse abdominus sufficiently, which I haven’t done. So, I’m going to work on strengthening those muscles by doing these exercises at least 4 times a week. And I’m going to try to do some yoga but will avoid the problematic poses.

I’ll post weekly to give you an update and report on what’s working and what’s not working. Here we go y’all! (Anybody want to do this with me? PLEASE?)

 

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You Know You Have 2-Year-Old Twins When…

Posted on March 31, 2017 by Wendy Posted in Motherhood, Twins .

“All done apple”

…every apple in the house has one bite taken out of it.

…every flat surface is covered with crumbs.

…everything you own is sticky.

…you have at least 4 of every. single. thing.

…you ask the dog to stop whining and “use his words.”

…”sleeping in” means you’re up by 6:30.

…you understand why mama bears porridge was cold.

…a Sharpie without a cap makes you break out in a cold sweat.

…you don’t remember the last time you slept in your bed alone or had your whole pillow to yourself.

…you accidentally find yourself humming the theme song to Paw Patrol or worse, Caillou.

…you start thinking hostage negotiation seems like a reasonable career choice once the kids go to school.

…you dream about going to the bathroom alone. Or anywhere alone.

…your mom voice is so good you have the neighbors brushing their teeth and picking up their shoes.

…you do so much laundry you figure there must be people living in your house that you haven’t met yet.

…you say previously unimaginable things like “your brothers face is not a seat” and “the bathtub is not a potty”.

…you discuss poop with your spouse at least 3x a day.

…someone in the house is always crying and a lot of times it’s you.

…you know you can ruin someones entire day by giving them the wrong color cup. But you also know there is no “right” color cup.

“All done sandwich”

…you consider buying stock in peanut butter.

…you realize silence is not golden – it’s terrifying.

…there are Cherrios in your shoes.

…no one is tired until it’s time to clean up the toys and then everyone is exhausted.

…you answer the same question 1,000,000 times a day. And it’s always about a cookie.

…you take 2,700 steps between 1:00 AM and 6:00 AM.

…you’ve Googled how many calories cleaning up Legos burns.

…you have 20 tissues in your pocket at any given time.

…you look forward to bedtime like it’s Christmas but then sit up late looking at pictures of the kids.

…you really start to “get” the concept of entropy.

…an out of harmony “Itsy Bitsy Spider” is the greatest thing you’ve ever heard.

…the best day of your life was the day you overheard their fight about who loves mama more.

…you get double snuggles, double hugs and double kisses.

 

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A day in the life of newborn twins

Posted on March 3, 2017 by Wendy Posted in Eating, Twins .

One of my close friends had twins last month. She had a lovely and uneventful pregnancy and her babies, a boy and a girl, were born healthy and required no NICU time. Now that the worry of a safe and healthy delivery is over I find myself thinking of her and the next challenges that she’s going to face. My mom and husband and I all exchange forced chuckles and slightly stricken looks when we talk about those early weeks and months with our twins because, wow, it was hard.

The hardest part for me was the feeding. I talk about this a lot because it was MY ENTIRE LIFE. Only one of my boys would latch so I was nursing one and pumping for the other and supplementing with formula when needed. That sounds reasonable, right? It seems like it should be totally doable. But the reality of it was completely overwhelming. Here’s a breakdown of a normal feeding schedule.

  1. Get Baby A to latch and nurse him for 5 minutes
  2.  Burp him while rocking sleeping Baby B in the Rock n’ Play.
  3. Relatch Baby A and nurse for another 10 minutes.
  4. Burp again.
  5. Wait to see if Baby A is still hungry and supplement if needed.
  6. Change Baby A and put him in the swing. 
  7. Change Baby B’s diaper and outfit because he pooped on himself while he was asleep. Clean out Rock n’ Play. Put Baby B in bouncy chair.
  8. Sit down to pump for Baby B. Get pump situated and start pumping. Remember that I forgot to pee.
  9. Pump for 10 minutes.
  10. Briefly stop pumping to pick up Baby B because he’s crying. Start pumping again but while holding Baby B.
  11. Stop pumping before I’m done because Baby A is crying and I have to pee. Put Baby B in the swing. Go pee while trying to comfort Baby A.
  12. Wash hands and rinse out pump parts while holding Baby A.
  13. Trade out babies in the Rock n’ Play. Put fresh pumped breast milk in bottle and start to feed Baby B while trying to comfort Baby A who is still crying. Why is he crying?
  14. Burp Baby B. Joyful moment when Baby A falls asleep.
  15. Finish feeding Baby B breast milk bottle while rocking Baby A in the Rock n’ Play with foot because if I stop he’ll wake up.
  16. Burp and change Baby B while still trying to rock Baby A.
  17. Baby B is rooting so supplement with bottle of formula.
  18. Burp Baby B.
  19. Put Baby B in swing where he falls asleep.
  20. Pick up Baby A who woke up when I stop rocking him. Rock him in the rocking chair until he falls asleep and unsuccessfully try to transfer him back to the Rock ‘n Play. Realize that he peed on me while in the rocking chair.
  21. Change Baby A and put him in the Rock n’ Play.
  22. Go and change clothes, or maybe not because Baby B is crying.
  23. Pick up Baby B who woke up when Baby A cried about being wet.
  24. Rock Baby B in the rocking chair until he falls asleep.
  25. Record the timing and amount of all feedings and all diaper changes for all babies while rocking Baby B.
  26. Go downstairs with sleeping Baby B and make more bottles of formula.
  27. Cry, because Baby A is scheduled to feed again in 5 minutes.
  28. Do this, ad nauseum, day and night, for months.

And now imagine trying to do that AT NIGHT IN THE DARK.

And do you see what’s not listed? Eating. And sleeping. And bathing. And visiting with people. And doing anything that doesn’t involve babies or boobies.

I was so lucky. I had a constant stream of people who came to help me – my mom, my sister, my MIL and SIL, all of my aunts, my BFF. Ro’s godparents came over and brought dinner every Wed. These lovely people are the only reason that I ate. Or slept. Or bathed. And I am so grateful.

So as I watch my dear friend starting down this road I laugh and sigh and pack my bags because this time, thankfully, I am the cavalry.

 

 

 

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Are they twins?

Posted on July 3, 2016 by Wendy Posted in Twin Pregnancy, Twins .

Twin_FAQ

Twins are pretty unusual. The CDC says that there are “more than 132,000 sets of twins out of 3.9 million births of all kinds each year, which is about 3.4%, or 1 in 30”. So when people see twins, they ask questions. Some of the questions are good, some are hilarious and some are downright weird. Here are the most common ones that I’ve gotten – so far.twins

  1. When they were infants people would ask me “How do you tell them apart?”   —  They never looked alike to me. Ro had a longer face and dimple in his chin. Z had a wider face and more olive shaped eyes. And they had completely different personalities, even in utero. Do you have 2 chocolate labs? How do you tell them apart?
  2. Now that they’re toddlers people say “They don’t look alike. Are you sure they’re twins?”  –  Yep, I’m positive. Would you like photographic proof?

    7 months pregnant with twins and 7 months post partum

    7 months pregnant with twins and 7 months post partum

  3. Do twins run in your family?  –  My polite answer is “They do now”. Sometimes I say, “My husband’s father has twin sisters”. Those that remember high school bio think for a minute and then start to look confused. *The chance of having twins is controlled by the female. You get twins when two eggs are released at the same time, or when an egg splits. The propensity to release multiple eggs at once is genetically (or sometimes age) controlled.twins
  4. How do you do it?  –  I don’t know. How do you do it? I just do what needs to be done! That being said, it’s really, really hard. Giving and getting support from other moms and from my family and friends has been critically important. If it takes a village to raise a child it takes an entire city to raise twins! It also helps to know that I’m not alone, so I get together with other MoM’s as much as I can.
  5. Did you want twins?  –  Easy one. Yes.
  6. Do you want to have another baby?  –  Depends on the day but usually no! But now that they’re stinky toddlers I miss that baby head smell.
  7. Do you have 2 of everything?  –  No, we have 4 of everything because they each need a thing in both hands or it’s a battle to the death.crying_baby
  8. Do they get along?  –  They’re almost always together so they get on each other’s nerves a lot. But they’ve recently started to play together and to talk to each other. Sometimes they sit and babble and giggle with each other behind the couch.
  9. Do they have the same personality?  –  Not at all. They’ve been different from the moment they were conceived. Ro is my crazy baby – we call him Mr. Personality. He loves people and loves to be the center of attention. He stomps around the house wearing everyone’s “sues” and gives big hugs and bright smiles. Z is a thinker – we call him Mr. Suspicious. He likes to sit back and observe. He is very quiet and reserved and mechanical. When he figured out that his little fingers weren’t strong enough to move the latch on the baby gate he took the gate apart at the hinges. He likes order and routine and will even put himself in time out when he’s done something wrong.
  10. Do they sleep together?  –  No, but they don’t really sleep much so there’s that.
  11. How much weight did you gain when you were pregnant?  –  Come on people, really? But whatever, I’ll you. I was 122 lbs when I got pregnant and 183 lbs when I delivered, so I gained a total of 61 lbs when I was pregnant. However, I was 134 lbs when I returned home from the hospital so a large percentage of that weight was babies and water. So the answer is either 61 lbs or 12 lbs, depending on your perspective.

    Twins on the inside and twins on the outside

    Twins on the inside and twins on the outside

    What questions have you gotten about your twins?

    Pretty much this. Every day.

    Pretty much this. Every day.

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Twin Pregnancy – A (Somewhat) Weekly Photojournal

Posted on June 1, 2016 by Wendy Posted in Twin Pregnancy, Twins .

Every woman worries about the changes to her body during pregnancy, and this is especially true when you’re pregnant with twins. I spent a lot of time online trying to figure out what to expect – how big was I going to get? When would I be too big to fly? To drive? To walk? So, here I have for you a photo timeline of my twin pregnancy. I wasn’t together enough to always wear the same shirt, or have the cute little blackboard with the weeks and baby vegetable size, or take a photo in the same spot on the same day every week. I missed weeks. I’m guessing on the timing of a few of these. But they should provide you with a bit of insight on what to expect when you’re expecting twins.

5.5 weeks

5.5 weeks

8.5 weeks

8.5 weeks

10 weeks

10 weeks

This was when I started wearing maternity clothes. Jeans were too uncomfortable and I was never a big fan of the Bellaband, although I know some people loved it. I did the old “hair tie through the button hole and around the button” trick for a while but frankly maternity pants are just better. I wish I could still wear them….*sigh*.

11.5 weeks

11.5 weeks

13.5 weeks

13.5 weeks

14 weeks

14 weeks

14.5 weeks

14.5 weeks

15 weeks

15 weeks

17.5 weeks

17.5 weeks

Right about now was when things started to get…uncomfortable.

22 weeks

22 weeks

23 weeks

23 weeks

24 weeks

24 weeks

I flew cross-country at 25 weeks. I had no problems but I was glad I picked an aisle seat because there were a lot of bathroom trips.

25.5 weeks

25.5 weeks

25.5 weeks

25.5 weeks

29.5 weeks

29.5 weeks

At this point I am measuring full term, and I am starting to have a hard time breathing as Baby B is moving up and smashing my left lung.

32 weeks

32 weeks

33 weeks

33 weeks

33 weeks 5 days

33 weeks 5 days

34 weeks 1 day

34 weeks 1 day

36 weeks

36 weeks

37 weeks 1 day

37 weeks 1 day

37.5 weeks

37.5 weeks

I gave birth just shy of 39 weeks.

Babies arrive!

Babies arrive!

3 weeks postpartum

3 weeks postpartum

6 weeks postpartum

6 weeks postpartum

7 weeks postpartum

7 weeks postpartum

9 weeks postpartum

9 weeks postpartum

I went from 122 lbs to 183 lbs during my pregnancy but by the time I got home from the hospital I was only 12 lbs above my pre-pregnancy weight. Fluid retention + 2 giant babies + 1 giant placenta = lots of extra weight! By 12 weeks postpartum I was back to pre-baby weight. I wasn’t trying for that, although I wasn’t sad about it either. I was eating a ton (mostly healthy, sometimes not) and breastfeeding but really not doing anything special. I don’t think I was able to put on a lot of weight because 1) I had nausea and then terrible heartburn that made eating painful, 2) My abdomen was filled with giant babies so I had no where to put food, and 3) The giant babies sucked me dry of all nutrients.

I also don’t have any stretch marks, although I have no idea how that’s possible as I went from a 24″ waist to a 53″ waist. Sometimes genetics just deals you a good hand I guess. I did put baby oil in my bath each night and I used Palmer’s Cocoa Butter Lotion morning and night but who knows if that worked. I liked the way they smelled and they helped with the terrible itching caused by the rapid growth of my tummy. And I figured that it couldn’t hurt!

Do you have questions about your twin pregnancy? Ask away!

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Pregnancy Announcement for Twins

Posted on April 25, 2016 by Wendy Posted in Twins .

Are you trying to come up with a cute (but not too cute) and funny (but not too funny) way to announce your twin pregnancy? It’s hard to come up with something new and original.

You’ve got the buns in the oven (there’s two!) and the super cute line up of shoes with the announcement of “We’ve grown by 4 feet!”. And then there’s the “Dad + Mom = 4!” and the sonograms of the babies with light sabers Photoshopped in. To be honest I really do love them all! I spent forever on Pinterest looking for inspiration but in the end we decided to go with some good old fashion bathroom humor. It fits our style.

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(The thing that you don’t see is that I actually did have terrible morning sickness and the act of leaning over the toilet…well it was a good thing he was holding my hair!)

What did you do to announce your twin pregnancy?

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Feed me!

Posted on April 23, 2016 by Wendy Posted in Eating, Twins .

I have a confession to make. Promise you won’t turn me in to the mommy police? I starting feeding one of my twins solid food at 5 months – GASP! In my defense though, the little dude was hungry. At 4 months he was reaching for food as we were eating it. By 4.5 months he would watch every morsel we put in to our mouths and then work his little jaw furiously like he was chewing. So at 5 months I said “Ok fine, lets eat some sweet potatoes” and let me tell you, you have never seen anything as joyful as that little guy eating sweet potatoes. He gobbled them up and then crowed for more! So the next day we gave him avocado. He crushed it. He was ecstatic! Feed me, feed me!!

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So how did I know what to give him? How did I know how to prepare it? The short answer is that I didn’t. I had read a bunch of stuff on baby led weaning, and we did some of that. And I read some stuff about making homemade baby food and I utilized some of the things that I learned from that. I talked with my mom and my aunts and my friends and listened to what worked for them. But in general, I just followed my gut. What’s healthy? What’s nutritious? What skills does my baby have (or not have) that affects their ability to safely eat certain foods?

Second confession – I desperately want to be one of those crunchy granola moms who makes everything from scratch and only uses organic fruits and vegetables from farmers markets and CSA’s, but the reality is that I’m too broke, too lazy and too busy for all of that. So all of these recipes are either quick, I found a short cut to make it quick, or I did everything in batches so that I only had to do it once in a while. When possible I try to buy organic fresh fruits and veggies, but often frozen is cheaper and pretty close to nutritionally equivalent. It also stores better, obviously. I also stop at all the little produce stands on my way home from work to try and get fresh, seasonal, local stuff. That assuages my “granola mom wannabe” side quite a bit. But I digress.

Here is a quick breakdown of some of the things that I fed my boys and how I prepared it. In most instances I don’t give you any measured amount so that you can use however much you think you’ll need, depending on the number of babies you have and their appetites.

Sweet Potatoes 

Preheat oven to 350. Wash sweet potato/s, puncture with a fork, wrap in aluminum foil and place on a baking tray (they drip when they cook). Cook for about 40 minutes or until potato is soft when you squeeze it. You can also cook these in the microwave, just use moist paper towels instead of aluminum foil. Cook for 4 minutes and then rotate and cook for another 2-3 minutes or until potato is soft when you squeeze it.

Scoop out the center and mash it up with a little bit of formula or breast milk (just an ounce or two, depending on the size of the potato). Season with a little salt (or cinnamon) and allow to cool. Storage: I just put the leftovers in a Tupperware in the fridge. I made a fresh batch every few days.

Butternut squash (or sweet potato chunks)

The best thing since sliced bread is pre-cut butternut squash. I’ve almost sacrificed fingers trying to cut up whole butternut squash! So this recipe calls for the slightly more expensive but pre-cut squash, either frozen or fresh.

Preheat oven to 350 degrees. Oil (or spray) an oven safe dish. Toss the squash in 2 tbs of oil (olive or coconut), lightly sprinkle with salt or cinnamon and place in a single layer in the baking dish. Cook the squash for 10 minutes, then remove from oven and stir. Put back in oven, stirring occasionally for about 25 minutes or until squash is soft. Allow to cool. You can either smoosh this with a fork or put it in the blender. I usually smoosh – see discussion below about blender hatred.

Fruit purees

1461678_10152912374832780_8429975389851886554_nYou can do this with any frozen or fresh fruit, depending on the season. I often used the frozen mixed berries from Trader Joe’s. Put the fruit in the blender with a few ounces of formula or breast milk. I would also usually add half a banana for thickening – pretend like you’re making a breastmilk smoothie. Puree until smooth – about 1.5 minutes. Spoon the mixture into clean ice cube trays (I got mine at the dollar store) and put in the freezer. To thaw, take out a cube of puree and either let it thaw naturally or put it in the microwave for 10-15 seconds. Always check the temperature to be sure it isn’t hot before you give it to your baby!! Also, I would sometimes mix this with rice cereal to make it a little bit more substantial. *I would usually make 4 or 5 different purees at a time so that I didn’t have to clean the blender often. I hate cleaning the blender. Some good combos are mango and banana, strawberry/blueberry, peach/mango/banana and strawberry/peach.

Apples and pears

I cooked apples and pears the same way so I’ll just lump them together. You can either boil these or bake them. If the pear is very ripe you can often just mash it up or puree it without cooking. Whenever possible I try to avoid cooking.

To boil – Boiling is faster but you lose some nutrients this way. Peel the fruit and cut into small chunks. Place the chunks in boiling water until soft, usually about 10-15 minutes (less for pears).

To bake – Preheat oven. Cut peeled fruit into small pieces and place in greased casserole dish in oven for 15-20 minutes or until tender.

Remove and puree in blender until smooth, adding water, formula or breastmilk until fruit reaches desired consistency. Spoon into ice cube trays and freeze.

Avocado

Cut the avocado in half and remove the seed. Scope out the green flesh with a tablespoon and discard the skin. Smash up the avocado flesh with a fork and season with a little salt and pepper. Avocado does not store well so only make what you need. Hint*-if you only plan to use half of the avocado leave the seed in the other half – it helps to keep it from browning.

Humocado or Avohummus

Prepare avocado as described above. Now mix the smooshed up avocado with a few tablespoons of hummus, either pre-made or homemade (If you’re feeling crunchy and have some extra time the recipe for homemade is below). This is super tasty (try some!) and very healthy. Lots of protein and good fats.

Hummus (without tahini)

  • 1 15 oz can of chickpeas, rinsed
  • 1 clove of garlic
  • 2-3 tablespoons of olive oil
  • Juice from ½ of a lemon
  • ½ c of water
  • a pinch of salt, cumin and paprika (to taste)

Put in the blender and puree until creamy. If it’s too thick add a little bit more water until it reaches the desired consistency.

Carrots – you can roast them, boil them or steam them. I recommend roasting.

To roast – Preheat oven to 350. Put carrots in the oven for ~30 minutes or until they are tender.

To boil – Put carrots in a saucepan of boiling water. Simmer for 15-20 minutes or until tender.

To steam – Place in a steamer over a simmering pot of water and allow to steam until soft.

After the carrots are cooked mashed them up or puree them in the blender with some water, formula or breast milk. Spoon in to ice cube trays for freezing.

Broccoli

Wash thoroughly. Steam or boil the broccoli until it’s soft, remove from liquid and puree until mostly smooth. I found that the broccoli didn’t stay together well so I would usually add it to other things, like mashed potatoes or carrot puree. Don’t make too much – a little goes a long way. You can freeze this in ice cube trays just like a fruit puree.

Mashed Potatoes

Wash potatoes well, or peel ahead of time. (I hate peeling and cutting potatoes so I always just cook them with the skin on and then slip the skins off when they’ve cooked). Take your potatoes (let’s say you have 3) and place them in boiling water until they’re soft. Remove the skins and start adding breast milk or formula as you mash the potatoes with a potato masher or a fork. Keep mashing and adding milk until the potatoes are smooth and creamy. Add some salt. *I would often add stuff to the mashed potatoes before I gave it to them, like pureed broccoli or roasted mashed carrots. If you have extra it will keep in the fridge for a few days. I would sometimes freeze the it in single sized lunched bags but the texture can sometimes can strange when it thaws. Never freeze it more than once, or it gets a really weird texture.

Some other things you can try –

  • My foodie friend made her girls lamb and mint jelly. Just take your favorite recipe (in this case lamb – blergh!), cook it as usual and then puree. Mint jelly on the side.
  • Do you love Indian food? So do my boys! I would puree the chicken from chicken tika masala along with the sauce and they would gobble it up. Mix it with rice cereal, or puree some chickpeas or lentils to mix in. They were also wild about peas paneer.

*Tip – if your baby doesn’t like a particular type of food try combining it with something they do like. Baby doesn’t like peas? Mix some peas with some carrots. Won’t eat pears? Mix with apples. You get it.

**Be creative – let them explore taste and texture. Think of how amazing it must be to taste all of these wonderful flavors after having nothing but milk! Just be mindful of possible allergens (peanuts, shrimp, strawberries, etc), be aware that their stomachs may be a little sensitive, and be mindful of their ability to chew and swallow effectively.

My babies did a lot of coughing and sputtering (with occasional gagging) while they were getting the hang of food. Be watchful but don’t be paranoid.

Quick Guide

Good things to mash without cooking – bananas, avocado

Good things to mash after cooking – butternut squash, carrots, sweet potatoes, potatoes, peas

Good things to puree without cooking – mango, kiwi, strawberries, blueberries, peaches

Good things to puree after cooking – chickpeas, peas, lentils, green beans, carrots, broccoli, chicken, pork, apples, pears

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Do you have any favorite baby food recipes? Share them in the comments!

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The eyes are the windows to the soul

Posted on April 23, 2016 by Wendy Posted in Birth, Twins .

I’m taking part in an academic research project that’s looking at the experiences and feelings of women who have experience C-section births. We were asked to take pictures that made us think of our birth experience or that brought up some of the complex emotions that that experience had inspired. Then we were supposed to upload these pictures along with an explanation of the image. This was one of the pictures that I took, and my story.

I desperately wanted to have my twins naturally. I knew that the odds where against that, but I still forced my husband to not just one but TWO “hippy dippy” natural birthing classes. I did all of the exercises to get babies to drop and to get them to turn. I stretched and massaged. I wrote birth plans for both natural deliveries and C-section births. But when I woke up at 2:30 in the morning and saw the blood I knew that my options had changed.

At Labor and Delivery triage, the nurse slowly and calmly looked for the heartbeats of my boys and attached the heart monitors. She chatted about mundane things. Finally she said, “Now I’ll check to see about your bleeding”. When she inserted the speculum the gush of blood soaked the bed and dripped on to the floor. Flustered, she excused herself. Within seconds lights were flashing and people surrounded me. The were taking vitals, inserting IV’s, coming at me with razors and forms to sign. As I was being swiftly prepared for the OR, the Doctor (who wasn’t my actual doctor but the attending on call doctor whom I had never met) came in and introduced herself. She asked if I had any questions. I told her that I had a birth plan and “hold on let me get it for you and we’d really like delayed cord clamping and immediate skin to ski…”. She cut me off and said “If we don’t get these babies out as quick as we can it will be bad news for all 3 of you.” I agreed that “yes, then we should do that, yes, immediately.” I was whisked away to the OR and my husband was sent in another direction to put on his scrubs and wait to be allowed in.

The OR was controlled chaos. There were so many people – the anesthesiologist, the doctor, the surgical team assigned to me, and neonatal teams for each of the babies. The room was literally filled with people – every one of them a stranger. Everyone was organizing, preparing, hurrying – moving in all directions all around me. And I was left sitting alone on the table in the eye of this hurricane of motion and preparation, utterly ignored. All of this was for me, about me, and yet I was invisible. I was enormously pregnant, freezing cold and bleeding profusely – I could feel blood on my legs – I knew I was sitting in a puddle of blood. I didn’t know if my babies were alright. I didn’t know what I was supposed to do. When the anesthesiologist finally asked me to hold still and take a deep breath I stared to shake – I was so afraid of that needle, so afraid of what was going to happen next, so afraid for my babies. Out of the corner of her eye the doctor must have seen my tears, or recognized my fear. She stopped her hurried preparations and came over to me. She put her arms around my shoulders and laid her forehead against mine. She held me in her arms and she held me with her eyes. She said quietly “You are doing great, and everything is going to be ok. We’re going to take a deep breath together and then you’re going to feel a pinch. Then I’m going to go and get your babies for you. You are going to hold your babies in just a few minutes. Be brave, mama. I will take care of you. I will care take of all of you.” She held me while the anesthesiologist inserted the needle. She held me until I stopped shaking. She held me until I found my courage.

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This picture is my attempt at showing what it felt like to be held by her in that terrifying moment. Held by her arms and by her eyes. I was totally alone and completely helpless. She recognized my fear and she touched me, and held me and comforted me. She became my focal point. In that moment of vulnerability what I remember most is her compassion and her eyes. She became my anchor and I put my life and the lives of my unborn children willing into her hands.

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So that I don’t leave you hanging, she did, indeed, go and get my babies. She held my first-born over the sheet and laughed “He’s a big fat juicy one!!” Both of my boys were born angry and squalling and healthy and perfect. I, on the other hand, suffered massive postpartum hemorrhaging and was apparently in dire straights. But, true to her word, she took care of us. Of all of us.

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